Should One be considered more important than the other?
Written by: Kevin Price
March 14, 2022
One day I overheard a conversation between a couple. They were talking to another couple about their children. All of a sudden I heard a Father say: "My Daughter will never love her Husband more than me!"
I thought to myself: "well that's pretty arrogant, is this guy serious?" Over time, I began to wonder why this Dad in particular would consider himself to be rivals with his Daughter's future Husband.
I'm going to explain the roles of both Husbands and Fathers and actually prove how the two are actually more alike than different. Ready? Here we go:
1. They are Protectors
Dads and Husbands both have the responsibility to watch over what is considered to be precious to them. This would obviously include their wives and children. You stand guard over what is most valuable to you. This is what Love will do in both Dads and Husbands.
2. They both need Respect
We all take a beat down in life from time to time. Dealing with many difficult situations when we're out and about in our day to day lives. Particularly for men, the weight that life puts on humanity can be a lot harder for them to hold up. This is because of the position that most men hold as Leader. Leaders have to manage and sort out a lot of things, especially in the home. Having respect for Leaders encourages them. Dad and Hubby need this encouragement.
3. They're both Destiny Helpers
When Dad is in the home, he is the symbol of Authority. He has a special gift of instilling confidence in the children. When Dad speaks, its typically in a straight forward manner. Encouragement from Dad has a positive and powerful influence on the mind of his children.
This is necessary for the children to find their God-given Destiny. If his Daughter marries, this responsibility is then passed onto her husband. Her Father lights the torch and then it is passed on to the man she marries. Her husband helps to finish what her father started. Dad and Hubby share this responsibilty, which is why it is important for them to get along!
Conclusion
So there you have it. I am sure that there could be more to this that I may have missed, but these are the first things that came to mind. #Dads and #Husbands are actually on the same side, they should never consider themselves to be enemies with each other. What do you think?
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